Pinoy Impact Hong Kong Big Stage 2024

Shiela Cancino
2 min readJun 23, 2024

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Thank you all for being here today.

It’s my honor to get a chance to speak to you today.

Shortly, you will hear about my public speaking journey and the lessons I’ve learned.

When I was growing up in the Philippines, my self-esteem was so low.

Being a public speaker was the last thing on my mind.

I was extremely shy then, and I still struggle with shyness today.

There are only 3 whom I am comfortable spending my time with: me, myself, and I.

My struggles were amplified when I moved to Bermuda, where English is the first language.

From a Certified Public Accountant, I became a Certified Public Avoider.

I didn’t want to speak to anyone in English.

Until I almost lost my job in 2008.

I applied to many companies, but no one hired me because of my barok/broken English.

Fast forward to 2018, after 6 long years as an active Toastmaster, I started winning speech contests.

I also won the JCI Public Speaking Championship with my speech, Chess Pawn.

One day, I saw a post on Facebook looking for TedX Wanchai speakers. I nominated myself.

Immediately, I got a reply, “We will contact you if you are shortlisted.”

Of course, I didn’t get a call.

There must be something wrong. Don’t they know that I am a Champion? I bought a ticket worth HKD600 to see the event.

I want to know who beat me.

I realized two things:

  1. They were right for not contacting me. The selected speakers are so good!
  2. The power of storytelling. I heard the message I needed to hear. That event is one of the inspirations for why we are here today.

Ladies and gentlemen, today, I’m no longer shy.

But I am still an introvert. But I grab every opportunity to speak because I know someone out there needs to hear the message of my speech.

To wrap up, I invite you to listen to every story because you might hear the message you need today to overcome your challenges, to face your struggles and to win your battles!

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Shiela Cancino

I help Asian Women advance in their careers without sacrificing “me time” all the time through confidence-building workshops & confidence coaching.